I had to LOL this week when I read the headline from Michelle Duggar. Personally, I’m not a follower of hers, but somehow came across her advice that women should be ‘Joyfully Available’ for sex with their man. I guess if women are always acting like sex is a joyous occasion, men won’t step out on them. I have to joyfully disagree with that!
Even if there is constant sex available at home, it doesn’t mean a person won’t have a roaming eye outside of the relationship. Sometimes it’s not always about the availability of sex, there’s more to it than sex. Sometimes it boils down to how somebody is treated, or maybe it’s the curiosity factor of being with somebody else. For heaven’s sake, Michelle! Quote:
Anyone can iron Jim Bob’s shirt, anybody can make lunch for him,” Duggar said her friend told her. “He can get his lunch somewhere else. But you are the only one who can meet that special need…
Michelle is advising women who are exhausted at the end of the day to not forget about the man’s needs. REALLY?
She says the man can get his shirt ironed, or his lunch made by anyone, but the wife (girlfriend?) is the only one who can provide that “special need” for her man.
I got news for Michelle. If a man is getting his shirt ironed and his lunch made by another woman, there’s something really effed up in the relationship. And, it won’t be long before that woman is taking care of some other needs for that man.
If it were me, I would make sure the man needed me for his lunch and shirts along with the sex. Hell, I don’t want another woman doing ANY sht for my man. RIGHT? And I don’t know about having sex if a person is totally exhausted, wont this make a person feel resentment?