Kati may not have known about her parents, or the fact her adoptive parents knew the true identity of her biological mother and father, but that was all about to change. When Kati was finally an adult, Ken and Ruth told her all about her life back in China. Then, they told her that Xu and Qian wanted to meet her. But there was a problem – no one knew how to get a hold of them.
But as luck would turn out, 21-year old Kati happened to meet a filmmaker who was making a documentary about babies being adopted in the U.S from China. She and the filmmaker made a deal: he would help her find her biological parents and she would appear in his documentary.
A Twist of Fate
As the Qixi Festival went on that day Annie was feeling distraught. She felt horrible that she hadn’t been able to find Xu and Qian. But just when she was about to turn back and return home empty-handed, something incredible happened. A television crew passed her and gave her an idea. She told them the story and hoped they could help – and they did!
But even though they helped put the adults in contact, that didn’t necessarily mean the Pohlers were going to be willing to let their daughter see her biological parents. After all, Kati was a 10-year-old at the time and had already been through a rough time as a baby.
Not That Easy
The TV crew helped Annie get in contact with the girl’s biological parents but that was only the first step on a long and treacherous path to seeing their daughter again. And there was still one major issue: the Pohler’s didn’t want Kati to have any contact with Xu and Qian. They thought that it was best to wait until she was old enough to make the decision as to whether or not she wanted to meet them or not all on her own. So, the Pohler’s made the tough choice to keep her true parents’ identities hidden from her – until that moment.
They knew that she was finally ready to know what they had known for all of those years. But was Kati ready? She was about to get hit with a lot of information, whether she was ready or not.
Meeting Time
After 21 years of wondering who her biological parents were, it was finally time for Kati to meet them. The filmmaker, Chang Changfu, had tracked them down. And of course, Xu and Qian were more than willing to meet their daughter and participate in the film.
It was 2017, and the Qixi Festival was taking place in Hangzhou. Everything happened just the way the couple had hoped when they wrote the note more than two decades before. The family prepared to meet their long-lost daughter for the first time. There wasn’t a dry eye anywhere within the vicinity as the parties all waited at the bridge.
Emotions Running High
You can imagine how both Kati and her Chinese parents must have felt on that fateful day. They’d all been dreaming about it for years, and the moment had finally arrived. Kati waited at one end of the bridge with the television crew, while Qian and Xu eagerly paced around at the other.
Finally, once the cameras were rolling and everyone was ready, they made their way towards each other, excited but cautious. After all, this was a huge moment, especially for a very emotional Qian, who’d been worried about the baby she was forced to give up.